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Thursday, November 29, 2012

News: 'My Daughter's Fiance Bathed Her With Acid'

Posted on 2:13 PM by rendy orton


Ladies please read this true life story culled from The Punch Newspaper and consider wisely whomsoever you choose to date!

The motive behind the acid bath of 22-year-old Chika Egbo by her estranged lover, David Sulaimon, remains elusive, but one thing is sure, the victim may not remain the same again.

Chika is a student of the Eugu State College of Education.

Last Tuesday, when our correspondent visited her at the Burns Unit of the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, Ikeja, Egbo has become a shadow of the beautiful girl she was. The substance Sulaimon allegedly poured on her had destroyed every visible skin from her chest upwards.

She mumbled to her father, a Taraba State-based businessman, as she could neither see nor speak properly at the time.

When her father, Matthew Egbo, narrated the incident that led to Chika’s state, the story brought tears to his eyes as he lamented that his daughter would never be normal again.


Matthew said, “In March 2011, someone who identified himself as Lekan Sulaimon called me, asking for my daughter’s hand in marriage. We talked a lot and I promised to speak with Chika on the issue.
“My daughter later told me he was the boy she was in love with and said she had resolved to marry him.”

After much discussion, Matthew told Sulaimon to bring his parents for proper introduction, but the suitor said his father was ill and needed to be taken abroad for treatment. He also said his mother was abroad.

Matthew said, “On the June 25 date that we agreed on, Sulaimon brought seven men and four women dressed in Yoruba attire to my hometown, Enugu, where we held the introduction.
“But around November last year, my wife travelled from Taraba to Enugu and Chika told her she was pregnant.”

According to Matthew, Chika told her parents they should not be alarmed since she and Sulaiman had agreed to get married.

Chika was instructed to go to Lagos and tell Sulaiman’s relations about the pregnancy.
But when she got back from Lagos, Chika told her father that she discovered that most of what Sulaiman had told her about his parents were lies.

Matthew explained, “For instance, Chika discovered that Sulaimon’s father was hale and hearty. The father told her he was not aware of any plans by his son to get married.
“She also learnt that the mother was not abroad too. She visited her and she told us the woman received her well and even expressed joy that his son had found someone to marry.
“But after the visit, we heard nothing from neither Sulaimon nor his parents until after my daughter gave birth to a baby girl on May 4.

Our correspondent learnt that Chika had broached the idea of abortion to her parents, as she told them it was apparent that the man she was in love with had lied to her all along.
Matthew forbade her to consider abortion. After the baby was born, Chika was said to have informed Sulaimon, but he gave series of excuses why he could not visit her.
He reportedly told her he was facing some challenges and did not have the wherewithal to take care of the baby at the moment.

After a few months, Chika’s baby girl was weaned and taken to Taraba to live with Matthew and his wife.

The Egbos said they took the decision to take the baby off their daughter’s hands so that she could continue her study.
PUNCH Metro learnt that in November, Sulaimon began to request that he needed to see his baby, but Matthew told him to bring his parents to come and iron things out.

Chika was said to have insisted she did not want to have anything to do with the young man anymore.
But on November 5, Chika travelled to Lagos after Sulaimon had informed her that his mother wanted to see her. The unsuspecting girl left Enugu without informing her parents.
“My phone just rang that day and I was told to come to Lagos because a young man had poured acid on my daughter,” Chika’s father said.

Matthew said the message came as  a rude shock since he was not aware his daughter went to Lagos. He explained that the police were the ones who got his number from her phone.
He said,“What I learnt was that when she arrived Igando, Lagos, Sulaimon met her and she demanded that he should take her to his mother who wanted to see her.

“What we gathered from the little she could mumble to us was that Sulaimon went behind a house and as they were about to pick an okada to his mother’s house, he brought out a polythene.
“But when they stopped at a point and Chika thought they were going to proceed to his mother’s house, he just opened a container in the polythene he was carrying and emptied its content on her head.

“She told us when she realised that what Sulaimon poured on her had began eating into her skin, she raised the alarm and called for help.”

PUNCH Metro learnt that passersby and sympathisers, who had been alerted to the young woman’s plight, pursued the fleeing Sulaimon. He was caught and taken to Ikotun Police Station.
 “Till now, I still don’t know why he did what he did,” Matthew said.

Divisional Police Officer of Ikotun, Mr. Augustin Akika, confirmed the incident, but said the suspect had been transferred to the state Criminal Investigations Department, Yaba.


Source: The Punch
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Happy 35th Birthday Timaya!

Posted on 1:58 PM by rendy orton


Happy Birthday to Nigerian Crooner Timaya!
Timaya was born in Port Harcourt, Nigeria 35 years ago.
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Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Mid Week Message: Unequally Yoked?

Posted on 4:24 PM by rendy orton

By Heather Lindsey

This message is so good we just had to share it as this weeks mid-week message. Please share these messages with friends, especially those who are going through similar situations. They will one day thank you for it!


I think it’s important to address this area because unequally yoked relationships are hindering our walk with God in regards to our friendships, courting, and especially in your dating relationships. Then, you look up and you’re married to this person that you’re completely unyoked with but because you were so focused on leaving the title of being “single” behind—you ignored ALL of the warning signs and married this fool who “said” he was a Christian.

Let's clear up a few things:

1. Yes, you can be unequally yoked with someone at your church or another Christian. Just because they are sitting under the same word as you-- doesn't mean that they are taking it and applying it to their life. Maturity comes when we start living this walk and passing these tests.

2. Yes, you can be unequally yoked with your friend. At times, there's a fork in the road of your relationships where maybe your friend stops pursing God as you continue to pursue Him. You may find that surrounding yourself with that friend is pushing you further and further away from God. You find yourself compromising and heading the wrong way.. but you just don't know why.

3. Yes, you and your boyfriend could be totally unyoked. Maybe you're trying to make it work because you don't want to be single. Maybe you're rationalizing because .. you're tired of being lonely. Maybe you both are working on your relationship "together" as you sleep "together?"

4. NO, you don't throw away every person you think you're "unequally yoked" with-- some relationships (mostly FEMALE friendships develop & grow into great relationships as no relationship is perfect), but YOU have to control the environment (ie. invite her to church or to a positive event.) And knowing God-- He refuses to share His glory with your little sorta-saved boyfriend so--most likely, He already told you to break that off.

5. YES, you can be free from soul ties by confessing your SIN to God and HE will cleanse it. (1 John)-- Sometimes, we think we need this whole emotional production at church to be free from a soul tie. WALK in the cleansing POWER of CHRIST & turn away from that sin. Now, by faith-- continue to choose Christ and the light. Then, GUARD your heart. Block him from social media, change your number-- do what you have to do.

6. YES, there's times you will have to pull back from your family and not surround yourself with them 24-7 as Christ builds your faith. They may not accept or understand your walk with God and criticize you for it. Stand firm in love.

Even demons can “say” they are a Christian. What would you say if satan came up to you and said.. “I’m a Christian, I’ll go to church with you on Sunday.” He goes to church with you—lifts his hands during praise and worship and shouts like he was delivered from something. Would you believe him?  Well, you’ve just met most people that are in church today. We sit in church on Sunday for one hour a week and we live the rest of the 167 hours a week like no God exists on this earth. Although they may not be satan—they live their life like they belong to Him.

 1 John 2:4- “If someone claims “I know God, “ but doesn’t obey God’s commandments, that person is a liar and is not living in the truth. But those who obey God’s word truly show how completely they love Him. That is how we know we are living in Him. Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did.”


So, I'm saying that you cannot just SAY that you’re a Christian and expect to get into heaven. If you belong to God—you will live in the light and stay in the light and make decision that line up with His word. Yeah, you’re not perfect but if you DO sin, He’s faithful and just to forgive you and cleanse you. (1 John 1:9) However, a real Christian isn’t practicing SIN. They practice holiness. They guard their heart. They’re intentional about living for God. So I challenge you. Do a lifecheck. Is there some fruit growing on your tree that PROVES that you live for Jesus? Stop telling me that you belong to Jesus if you hate someone that hurt you. (1 John 2:10). When you take each day—day by day—you’re living for Christ. When you GIVE Him your hate, frustration, issues and problems-- and ask Him to help you and you really mean it-- you're living for HIM.

So now that we have the basics down about what a real Christian is—let’s take a look at how to identify an unequally yoked relationship. You know deep down in your heart if you aren’t equally yoked with someone. You just know. Especially if you spend time with them and see how they respond to life’s issues. You may ignore those areas because you “love” him and he’s “on his way to being saved” or you’re trying to “get him saved.” The only thing you can change on a boy is his diaper. A man has to want God for himself. You may have been with that person for a really long time and you don’t want to start over with anybody else but you know good and well that person,  (insert name) is not God’s best for your life.

2 Corinthians 5:14-16- “Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever? And what union can there be between God’s temple and idols? For we are the temple of the living God.”


Remember that just because someone says they’re saved, they can still be an “unbeliever.” An unbeliever is someone who refuses to believe God’s word and live according to His ways. I'm so tired of Christians running around and saying they got saved at 4 years old and since then-- they've been living like hell on earth. YOU are LIVING for your master. Is your master GOD or satan?Your lifestyle best identifies with who your father is. 
          

Let’s look at a couple of scenarios.

1. An unequally yoked boyfriend or girlfriend can pull you so far away from Christ. They will poison you with their “ideas” and “philosophies” about God while planting seeds in your heart.

They may say, we are planning on getting married—"it’s ok for us to have sex. Nobody is going to know—I just want to be one with you. I’m committed to you and you’re committed to me—we have each other." Sounds like something out of a movie right? You feeling’ all warm and fuzzy inside but STOP. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20  “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.  Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” YOU cannot trust that man with your own purity and you're about to trust him to lead your life in a one-day marriage?

Your little boyfriend has made his flesh his “god” and is about to rob you of your purity and relationship with God by taking what doesn’t belong to him.Don’t be that girl that goes along with him. Your relationship will only get worse as you push God to the outside of it. Remember those that choose Christ are abiding in the light. They are choosing God when it’s hard. Remember that our relationships are supposed to push us closer to God—not away from Him.

   2. They can weaken your faith. It’s that person that constantly doubts everything about God based on some weird “logic” that they came up with.  So if you’re hanging around a ton of “friends” that are of different religions,you’re setting yourself up if you aren’t strong enough. Meaning, most likely, you will end up doing what they’re doing versus your Christian values influencing them. You cannot tip-toe around this area.

1 Corinthians 5:9 says “Do not associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. I wasn’t talking about unbelievers who indulged in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to believe yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, worships idols, abusive, is a drunkard or cheats people.”

You may be thinking that this is a bit extreme. God knows that you’re not going to walk around sinless and neither will those around you but this text is referring to those people that deliberately sin, feel no guilt, shame or remorse and then come up with excuses in their head to why they think it’s ok. If you continue to read that same scripture—it says to JUDGE the person inside the church who claims to be a Christian yet indulges in sexual sin. This isn’t a chance for you to yell at everyone and call the out unless you’re ready to call yourself out. You go to your sister in Christ and confront and discipline that person from a caring place of LOVE.




If you have a friend who you are watching go downhill in a certain area—talk to them in a loving way about this. But check and pull your emotions together before you speak to them. It’s vital for your walk as a Christian to make sure that you’re surrounding yourself with believers and Christians that live for Christ. More than anything- be GOD led.

Don’t you REALIZE that there’s a reason that God doesn’t want you to associate with people that aren’t going in the direction that you’re going in? God told Abraham in Genesis to LEAVE his family and go to a place where God would show him. God didn’t even give specific instructions. He just said GO. So, when God tells you to “go”—what excuse do you give? You don’t want to leave your boyfriend that keeps sleeping with you? You have chicks around you that are dropping seeds of doubt in your head? Are your “unequally yoked” friendships pushing you away from God? Of course they are. The proof is in the pudding. You get around that girl—and you find that you complain, gossip and feel heavy after leaving her presence. Back to the story—God told Abraham to get away from His family because his family worshiped idols. They didn’t belong to God. God needed Abraham to GET away from those people that were framing his thinking. They had influence on him. So.. who is influencing you?

Your life is much greater than having a billion friends and a ring on your left ring hand finger. At some point, we have to learn to trust God concerning these temporary things. Eternity is knocking at your door and you don’t want to stand before God and say “I didn’t obey you because I was too busy & distracted trying to keep a man that you never told me to keep.”

I know I will get this question—“What if you’re married?” Well, if you’re married—this isn’t a reason to run and get a divorce. You win your husband over to Christ by your quiet & gentle spirit (1 Peter 3:4). Trust me.. I've won my husband over in certain areas concerning areas in our marriage. I've watched God change my husbands heart because I learned to accept him-- ISSUES and all. I knew that I couldn't change his issues but CHRIST could if I moved out of the way and LET Him. YES 1 Corinthians 7:14- "For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy." HOWEVER, your goal should not be to marry somebody who is NOT equally yoked with you. Paul is referring to a person's "current" state-- not somebody who is pre-planning to marry a random. His instructions for that was "DO NOT DO IT." Don't marry an expectation that a person will all the sudden change once you get married. You WILL deal with so many other issues that come with marriage if your husband isn't saved. So don't even gamble with it. PLUS, how can YOU trust the leadership of your one-day spouse if his father is the enemy? So if you are married-- continue to pray and ask God for grace. But if you're not-- don't use this as an excuse to run and marry somebody.You will remember my words if you do. 

At the end of the day, this Christian walk is going to cost you something. You are required to DIE. Die DAILY. Die to your old way of thinking & being and taking on the image of Christ. So, you may think.. “my situation is different, we’ve been together for years and years and he says he’s saved but—I don’t see any fruit but he’s working on it.” Well, sista- you need to let him work on it,over there. Don’t be a distraction to his walk and most likely, while he’s working on it—he’s still dealing with his carnal nature concerning his flesh and your body. Don’t allow yourself to become an idol for a new Christian. They’re searching for somebody to depend on – make sure that space is empty for Christ. And make sure that yours is empty as well so it can be filled by CHRIST. You don't really need that man to be satisfied, you need CHRIST.







Source: Heather Lindsey blogspot, madamenoire
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Lol- Elevator Prank

Posted on 4:22 PM by rendy orton


We are not sure how we would react in such situation. My guess would be probably cry and pray simultaneously  It's quite amusing, but could it just be a great case of acting?
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Picture Of The Day

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Monday, November 26, 2012

Lol- Accents

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Sunday, November 25, 2012

Lol- Instagram Madness

Posted on 12:22 PM by rendy orton

Photo: Believe it or not this is how far social networking has gotten to ......@stylishghana
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Fashion We Like: Week Beginning 25th November

Posted on 12:02 PM by rendy orton

http://www.adashofflair.com/
Lollihearts 
Curves and Confidence 

Mattieologie 
The Hot Spot 
Fai Fai 
Love,Cortnie Handbags 
Carmen Alexandra 
Hand-Picked Style w/Nia 
BITE MY HEATH BAR 
Accessories We Love Boutique
Fai Lwanda


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Saturday, November 24, 2012

Bible Bites: Goodness & Mercies Shall Follow Me- Psalms 23.6

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Sunday Sermon: How The World's Disbelief & Disregard for God Actually Proves His Exsistence

Posted on 4:26 PM by rendy orton

Written by Matt Brooks
On 15th November 2012, I went out to vote. When I got to my polling centre (which is a primary school) I saw something that really got me thinking…
While I was placing my vote (in the local primary school) for the candidate I wanted to take on the role of West Midlands Police & Crime Commissioner I spotted something in the corner of my eye. That something was a “Witches Cavern”. 
How does all of this tie in to the title of this article?
Whenever God or the name Jesus is mentioned, Atheist’s and many other kinds of non-believers get enraged. As we saw, the Freedom From Religion Foundation sent Obama a letter following his re-election, asking him to reject the way “this country (USA) politicizes religion” by taking “So Help Me God” out of the Presidential oath.
All over the world, Schools are banning prayer, the reading of the Bible and in some cases even hymns while at the same time promoting, wizardry, witchcraft, vampire stories and much more.
Now of course whenever this topic is brought up or discussed, the common excuse is that “witches and vampires aren’t real… It’s all just a fantasy.” Now what’s interesting about this is that witches (in a lot of these stories) cast spells to control, manipulate and sometimes cause harm to people; or in other words promote what we’d call bad, cruel or wicked (whether you’re a Christian or not).
Where it gets more interesting is that in media, education and even politics, God is being kicked out, muzzled and restricted, but why? If “God isn’t real” and science can prove God’s inexistence, what’s all the fuss about?
Surely us Christian’s should be left to get on with it and enjoy our “fantasy.”
Do these people who are trying to eradicate Jesus in every area of society and culture really believe that“there is no God,” or actually quite the opposite?
In these last days when the world is becoming darker and consumed with evil, could it be that if we were to look somewhere at the top of these societies/organisations of unbelievers who are trying to eradicate faith we would actually find some believers in God (I AM)?
Have these organisations been set up to confuse the world and turn people away from God? Remember, the devil is a great deceiver and the father of all lies.

Is this part of the devil’s plan of action to engage in combat with God to win the world and take them to hell?
Could it be that because the devil knows that there is power in the name of Jesus that, this is the real reason why the use of Jesus’ name is being restricted and confined while the names of witches and warlocks freely find their place in our books and movies?
Could it be that the devil (who knows the Bible well) knows that “life and death are in the power of the tongue…” (Proverbs 18:21) and so wants to restrict the reading of the Word of God because God’s Word is truth and also Life and he (the devil) does not want the world to have the truth and be set free and liberated by God?
Could it be that while songs of praise are being taken off airwaves and out of school assemblies while songs promoting violence, sex and drugs get extensive airplay be because when we sing praises to God, He comes to enjoy our worship and “in His presence is fullness of joy” (Psalm 16:11) and the devil does not want us to have the joy of the Lord because that is our strength but rather have lust, drugs and murder because that path leads to destruction?
These are just questions that I pose but after taking a look at the world around me, I’m starting to wonder if a lot of these “unbelievers” believe and are trying to stop the mission of God or if sadly, they’ve simply just been deceived…


Source: Matt Brooks(ireadmex)
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Picture Of The Day

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Style: The Continuation Of Duaba Serwaa's Ready To Wear Spring/Summer Preciosca Collection 2013

Posted on 8:40 AM by rendy orton

The latest collection of Ghanaian designer Nelly Hagan Aboagye‘s fashion line Duaba Serwa made my little heart melt over and over again. I mean this lookbook in its entirety is nothing short of impressive from the geometric patterns , beautiful hand crafted beading, to the prints. 



If you've seen previous collections from her you will know that you can expect nothing but the best.
I heard that she received a standing ovation when the models walked the runway a few weeks ago during The 2012 Ghana fashion and design week -Ciaa Afrique


This collection is flawless. We LOVE!



Credits:

Photography by Shooting the Breeze: Shooting the Breeze: Photography by Sefa Nkansa and Ofoe Amegavie 
Model :Nicola Sackey
Make Up : Looks by Asiakie
Shoes by: Mo Saique

Follow this link to view the rest of the collection here.
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Thinking Out Loudly: Chad vs USA- What The World Eats

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Always be thankful. In difficult situations remain grateful.
God is always good!
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Movie Night: Mr & Mrs, Starring Nse Ikpe Etim And Joseph Benjamin

Posted on 7:44 AM by rendy orton


This has to been one of the best and most educational Nollywood movie we have seen in a long while.

“Mr and Mrs” is a compelling family story about love, betrayal and forgiveness.The lead roles are played by Nse Ikpe Etim and Joseph Benjamin and the movie is written and produced by Chinwe Egwuagu and directed by Ikechukwu Onyeka.
Watch the full movie below. 


Hope you enjoy it and learn more about relationships.
Don't forget to share it with a friend, it could save a marriage!




Source: (TVNolly) Youtube
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Happy Birthday Lynxxx!

Posted on 7:20 AM by rendy orton

Happy Birthday to a very handsome young man!
Lynxxx, Nigeria own heartrobe has added a new year today. 


Africa Style Daily, and online magazine caught up with Lynxxx earlier this year, and here is what he had to say.

AFRICA STYLE DAILY:  How impactful/influential is style to you as an artist?

LYNXXX: Style to me as an artist I believe is my identity! Therefore its very important and could mean my style of music or my style of dressing but most importantly its what my fans identify with and in turn may have the ability to influence.
ASD: Do you currently work with a stylist? Why or why not?

LYNXXX:  I have worked with various stylists in my career over the years but right now I work with a female designer (Toju Foyeh) who makes me a lot of custom gear for my stage performances and shoots (video / photo). The greatest thing about it is the fact that she doesn’t make male clothes so its an exclusive deal. So I’m sure I wouldn’t have the same pieces as anyone else!
ASD: What do you consider your trademark style?

LYNXXX: My trademark style is definitely the smart GQ look! I believe I own over 50 suits and various blazers and jackets. From the jump of my career, that’s a signature look be it from my stage performances to my photo and video shoots or red carpet appearances, Looking sharp is a must for my brand.
ASD: How has it evolved since you began your music career?

LYNXXX: I believe my style has moved with time, cos even tho my signature look revolves around looking GQ and sharp, the style / cuts, fabrics and mix match options change depending on how I feel. I like to spice up my style with accessories. From watches,rings to neck pieces.
ASD: Does what you wear on stage get days, hours, or seconds of thought?

LYNXXX: hmmm…. I think its more of an “hours” issue. I hardly pre-anticipate my dress-code. If I know I have an even coming up I instantly have an idea of what look I want to go for but I wait till the day before I put things together.

ASD: If your sound/music were an established clothing brand it would be…

LYNXXX: Hermes, simple, classy, not too out there and easy to identify.
ASD: An investor approaches you about launching a clothing line, what would you name it?

LYNXXX: I already have a clothing line called “syndik8 Denim”. You can Google it and read about it but its a premium urban brand, established in 2007 and we specialize in T-shirts for both male and female. Before I got into music professionally I used to design, specialized in Graphic and webdesigns and my partner ikon n I started designing clothes and we are currently in the process of opening our 1st shop.


We wish Lynxxx a fantastic new year!
I'm sure he has many fans amongst African Sweetheart readers.
=)



Source: African Style Daily
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Picture Of The Day

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Friday, November 23, 2012

Short Stories: The Date

Posted on 10:53 AM by rendy orton

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”


The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally
. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked.


An African-American woman is shown with a pensive expression as she looks out a window.


My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.”

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s. “I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting.”

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said. “Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed.

“How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.”






At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “I LOVE YOU” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till “some other time.”









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